First of all don't worry - everyone is nervous when they meet someone new. Think of it as online dating. We chat via email and get a feel for each other, then maybe chat on my private telephone number. At the end of this process we meet up and have a lovely time. For further first time advice visit my guide for New Friends
Lily prefers all initial contact to be made through
Email. Please do not contact her without first reading the Terms of Engagement.
I will not reply to your email address without your explicit permission. Autoresponders are not used, so if you want to be contacted via an alternative address, please state it in your initial email.
All billing will be processed discreetly though Luxury Lilys sister company. Lily will discuss the various options with your privately. Billing details will only be released at the end of the screening process.
This is an essential part of the process. I will require to know your real name and contact details. This will include a verifiable business telephone number (switchboard not direct).
I will not contact you without your explicit permission.
Your details will not be held electronically.
All records are destroyed after our meeting.
Should you find any of the screening requirements difficult to fulfill Lily will work with you to find a suitable alternative.
If you want me to use a cover story when verifying your business address ie phoning to remind Mr x about his dental appointment, then let me know.
Nothing will be done without your explicit permission.
A little reminder, for your online security.
Your network administrators at work are probably reading your email. They'd tell you they weren't if they were asked, but you can bet that they are. If you are considering emailing Lily from your place of work, then please bear this in mind. It might be helpful to use a separate email account to email Lily from. These can be easily set up, however if you use an anonymous email account to make contact, such as Hotmail, AOL, GMail I will require an alternative verifiable email address as part of the screening procedure.
Don't forget that even anonymous email contains invisible information about the sender. This is contained in the header section and contains amongst other things one or more Internet Protocol (IP) numbers which can be traced using various sites. This number will usually be assigned to the ISP rather than the sender, but the ISP will be able to trace the sender using that number. This means that this number may be used to trace you, your ISP or your organisation.
If you visit a lot of sites of this nature you might
want to think about investing in some anonymizer software to hide your IP address and
encrypt all outgoing and incoming Web data.
Without this your ISP, the network administrators at work, web-site operators
and even hackers can watch where you surf and what you do, and what you type when you are there.